Guide for Ministers

3.16.5 Prerequisites for a ministry: Lifestyle

3.16.5.1 Matrimony

Marriage is the lifelong union between a man and woman desired by God, upon which His blessing rests. It also forms the foundation for the family. It is based on a free and voluntary public expression of fidelity by both partners. Mutual love and fidelity are indispensable factors in the success of a marriage. God’s blessing is an important and valuable foundation for marriage and family life.[25]

A monogamous marriage is a divine institution and not only a human institution. A polygamous marriage, that is marriage with multiple spouses, is not in accordance with Christian teaching and values. The fact that God has explicitly anchored the protection of marriage within the Ten Commandments underscores the importance and value of marriage as a divine institution.[26]

The activity of the minister does not require him or her to be married, however, a minister is expected to credibly profess matrimony as a Christian standard for the union between man and woman. In their matrimony, married ministers should thus endeavour to practise the Christian values of

  • genuine love,
  • serious commitment,
  • enduring fidelity, and
  • mutual support.

3.16.5.2 Cohabitation

While taking into consideration the traditional, cultural, and social circumstances, the District Apostle issues regulations governing the situation of ministers who live in civil partnerships.

If a Deacon is cohabitating with his or her partner, the Apostle, Bishop, or district rector will assess the situation at the direction of the District Apostle, and make a decision as to whether it is possible for him or her to continue in the exercise of his or her ministry. The Church has particular expectations concerning the conduct of life of a priestly minister. If a priestly minister is cohabiting with a partner, the District Apostle should assess the situation and make a decision and, if need be, delegate this to the responsible Apostle.